Benjamin loves books. He really enjoys having a book read to him at bed time and I love reading to him. It's good father/son time and since his mother can't read, it's up to me.
At the suggestion of
Jeffrey Gitomer, I picked up a copy of
Watty Piper's
The Little Engine that Could. Have you ever read this book? I mean really read it? The book has a whole cast of characters each of which offer a great lesson. Although it is important to have self-confidence, it's also important to have a servant heart.
This morning, Benjamin found his neatly folded stack of clothes for the day, left by his mother, at the foot of his bed and brought them in to the kitchen where I was. I asked if I could help. "Maybe, but I'm going to try it myself," he said. Getting his head through the big whole, getting his socks on where the words end up on the sole of his foot, and zipping and snapping his pants are usually a little bit of a challenge.
I was into my daily reading when I heard the words that gave me the equivalent of a Venti Pikes Place at Starbucks, "I think I can, I think I can, I think I can." I looked up and saw that he did, he did! The boy had completely dressed himself.
Now this isn't really a big deal for a child turning four in a month. A little challenge on the socks and pants but not a huge one. The thing is...he was giving himself self-assurance while keeping his goal in mind. Self assurance has to be vocalized and not kept inside. The more he heard himself say the words to more he wanted to do it.
This is a must read. For you. For your child. For your family. For your team. I am going out today to get another copy to keep in my office. I'll be reading this book at my next sales meeting.